Currently, navigating different environments in and outside of the home has become something of an uncertainty and a bit of trial and error.
An item that is up in air in terms of legality and having parents hesitating on decisions, is how to properly handle joint custody and the transferring of a child between homes during COVID-19.
The Ontario courts are telling us that children’s lives cannot be placed on hold without risking serious emotional harm and upset to the children. However, some parents may have to forgo time with their child if they are under self-isolation due to recent travel or exposure to COVID-19
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It’s all about what’s in the best interest for the child and providing love and support from both parents.
In some cases, a parent’s behaviour may raise concern about parental judgement and that will need to be taken into consideration. This can include failing to comply with social distancing, or not taking responsible health precautions.
2 Parents with a shared custody agreement can refer to the Ontario Superior Court’s recent case,
Ribeiro v Wright, 2020 ONSC 1829 (CanLII) for guidance on how to navigate this new normal.
In summary:
• The court says existing parenting arrangements and schedules should continue with modifications to ensure COVID-19 precautions, such as physical distancing, are being followed.
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• In some cases, the court says parents may have to forgo their time with the child if they have to self-isolate because they’ve become ill, they’ve travelled abroad, or they’ve been exposed to someone with the illness.
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• The Ontario Superior Court judge says there should zero tolerance in the eyes of the court for any parent who recklessly exposes a child (or members of the child’s household) to any COVID-19 risk.
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• There may need to be changes to transportation, exchange locations, or any terms of supervision, according to the court.
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• In step-families, the court says parents will need assurance that COVID-19 precautions are being maintained in relation to each person who spends any amount of time in a household – including children of former or new relationships.
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• For the sake of the child, all parties must find ways to maintain important parental relationships.
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There will be no easy answer, for every household is different, but the need for collaboration and to work on developing new custody arrangements could be the best option for both parties.